why do you need a boyfriend?

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The content of this blog entry is not intended to “malign any religion, ethnic group, club, organization, company, or individual,” or anyone or thing, especially those with the ability and desire to fight back.

Today, I surprise that my mom said K is quite a nice guy. And today, Tingwen (joking) told my mom that K give me 2 more years. Mom went to collect her dress at MNG (oh btw, I really want to get a top and pouch over there) and her friend told her something and went we're on the way home, she suddenly asked me what's his pay. I told her $ and she was like hmmm..你觉得这样养家会辛苦吗?
(But seriously, how much $ is consider enough? Must he be like a fucking millionair? Money doesn't matters as long as we are happy right, no?)

I know it's a little too early to plan about this kind of thing and i understand that being a mother, she wants the best for her daughter. I'm not too sure about this though, obviously my mom wouldn't want me to have a husband in the sales line cos its a "no day no night" kind of work, even Saturday&Sunday also must work. Where got time for family?!

And she went on like ... 你要想清楚哦,你还年青以后进大学或做工找到更好的怎么办?
I went to tell her about how my friend's boyfriend gg army and she will be working by that time, we all are so young and why are we dating now? Are we dating just for that "feel" or you think that he is THE one? If you know that you guys won't have any future, why still being together? Why let each other fall in love so deeply when you know that he's not the type that you are going to spent your life together?

And this led me on google about "Why do you need a boyfriend"
HAHA, I did this "do I need a Bf" quiz. This is the result -____-


Actually I've several answers on my mind

1) You are looking for a husband
2) You are lost and lonely
3) Because everyone has it
4) Just for fun
OR
5) You are a freaking 40 year old virgin that need to get fuck badly ):

What my mom always tell me is that dating is when you think you're ready to look for a partner for life.
If you're dating just for the sake of dating (eg: You think you really love him but see no future with him) then why waste time and effort on him? Or are you waiting for one day, that day when he's gonna dump you and hurt you?

I remember when I was younger, I used to date anybody (ANY!) who like me, only 1 of them I fell like so in love and in the end he broke up with me for another girl ):
I guess due to peer pressure? Or at that point of time I think going steady(not so) with someone else is quite COOL!

But as somebody who has been there and done that, I advise you enjoy the things that being a young adult brings while you can. Don't try and rush in to a relationship, because it happens when you don't expect it. And it will happen, just not yet.
Be patient, and enjoy your youth :)
(Am I still consider youth?lol)

Ps; you can try reading this article to see if your relationship is getting serious or not.
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Also read..."Is you Boyfriend a PLP (potential-life-partner)"
HUGS & LIPSTIX, Sylvie